A Tribute to Jan

My friend Jan and her granddaughter Ali

I lost a friend this week, but heaven gained an angel. Jan found out about a year and a half ago that she had inoperable pancreatic cancer. Despite her battle with the disease, loss of weight, doctors appointments and chemotherapy, she managed to strengthen the relationships with those around her.

Jan spent time with her grandchildren and was at Ali's first birthday party in February, one of her goals. She took a trip to California last summer with her three sisters, Barb, Toni and Gerri and came away with some great photos and memories. One of her last outings was a Valentine stay at a the Gainey Ranch Hyatt with Jack, her dear friend, where they danced and rode in a gondola.

Last Saturday, her family helped her throw a "Celebration of Life" party. She invited those close to her for a final goodbye and hug. She told us all to love those around us and treasure every day. It was a difficult goodbye, with laughter, tears and a beautiful sunset!

Jan was six months younger than me. Her sister Barb married my brother Phil when we were teens, and we became fast friends. We raised kids together, camped out, water skiied and shared many happy times together.

Jan passed away peacefully with her sisters, Barb and Gerri, by her side. We will all miss her beautiful smile, charm and grace. Goodbye, dear friend!